Awesome! I am hoping to have the strength to stick to my decision to not have my ALO bring up his addiction in conversation with me. I haven't yet seen him to tell him my decision, but I am sure that at some point he will bring it up regardless, maybe he will forget, and it is then that I will have to be strong and remember to remind him and ask him to stop talking about it and walk away if he will not. Even if he is the one bringing up the topic, any discussion of addiction or recovery just feeds my codependency. I can't do it anymore-I am hoping not having those conversations will help me break away some from my addiction to my ALO's addiction and trying to save him. Sounds like you are taking the right actions at the right time-I hope I can do so as well.