Thank you friends. I have been in and out of the hospital constantly for the past two days. Now that the family birthday party is over - to which I did not attend - the stress is gone from the universe. Daughter must be transferred to a psych hospital for release from the general hospital BUT only after she formulates a "plan" and is on anti-depressants. However, since she is high risk pregnant and high risk due to using drugs in the recent past and has been on methodone and suboxone - and was suicidal - no psych hospital is prepared to take her - with 4 in the vicinity. She is in limbo - she cannot leave the ER and has no place to go - and cannot be released to home. We laughingly told the head nurse - "Well if she stays here on a gurney in the ER/psych ward for the next 4 months and has the baby here - then you can release her as she won't be High Risk." Even though the behavioral RN's are pretty immune to patient humor - it brought a laugh and an extra dinner for me.
I am seeing what a fine young man the baby daddy is as he hasn't left her side and is so compassionate.
One more quick run in tonight to bring her more DVD's and cookies and to tell her about what real friends/family on this forum we have.
Thank you, thank you.
P.S. New baby's name will be Victoria Lynn (Victoria from victory over drugs). Nice huh?