The good news is that you don't have to give up until you are ready. We will not judge you for staying or leaving your husband. This is a place where you get support so you can find your own answers. The only time we say 'leave now' is if there is physical abuse happening.
It was a big relief to me when I first came here, someone told me I shouldn't make any major decisions about my relationship until I worked the steps with a sponsor for 6 - 12 months. It was a big weight off my shoulders. I could put that question on the shelf for a bit. It honestly consumed so much of my time that I didn't have room for much else. So when I put that question down, I freed up my time so I could really focus on healing myself and working this program.
It has given me sanity, serenity, appreciation, awareness... I could go on and on. I am forever thankful to this program and the gifts I have received just by showing up.
So glad you found us. Welcome, welcome, welcome! Keep coming back!
With love & appreciation,
"Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know."
- Pema Chodron