When God Winks - a book that helped me with HP

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When God Winks - a book that helped me with HP

Postby JanetsHope » Thu Jul 22, 2010 3:13 pm

Hi everyone,

I shared something recently that I thought might be helpful to anyone who is
having difficulty in identifying with, or defining, their Higher Power.

I grew up in an environment where church, religion ... even spiritality ... was not
something that was talked about or emphasized. I was simply in survival mode,
as an only child, living with two alcoholic parents. As I got older, my search for
my Higher Power - God, as I understand Him, has been a work in progress ...
taking me on a journey to find something that is comfortable for me. Sometimes,
I think I am still on that journey!

Reading is one of my passions, and a couple of years ago, I randomly stumbled
upon a book entitled "When God Winks." I thought it might be of help to anyone
who is struggling with the concept of a HP. Each day, I pay a little more
attention to the "little things," so that I can catch the God winks. As a result,
my HP might take on a different form everyday ... one day it might be a
spectacular sunset; one day it might be that near accident I avoided because
I touched my brakes for no apparent reason; one day it might be an unexpected
phone call from a distant friend or relative; one day, it was passing an acquaintence
on a sidewalk in Chicago while on business (we're both from Ohio)!

... anyway,

Anyone else remember Schoolhouse Rock? ... the book is written by its creator
(even that was a "wink" to me :) )

Here is a description from the book ...

"It is not by accident that you just picked up When God Winks. Whether you call it synchronicity or coincidence, what brought you to this book today is worth remembering. In fact, you may have suspected all along that there is more to coincidence than meets the eye. These seemingly random events are actually signposts that can help you successfully navigate your career, relationships, and interests. Squire Rushnell shows us that by recognizing our "God Winks," we can use the untapped power of coincidence to vastly improve our lives. The author applies his compelling theory as to why coincidences exist to fascinating stories in history, sports, medicine, and relationships involving both everyday and famous people including Barbra Streisand, Charles Schulz, Oprah Winfrey, Kevin Costner, Mark Twain, and Presidents John Adams and Thomas Jefferson."

Hope it is helpful ... if not in helping with the concept of a HP,
then perhaps as entertaining reading! Take what you want ...

Hugs to all of you!

Janet
God, grant me the Serenity to accept the people I cannot change,
the Courage to change the one I can,
and the Wisdom to know it's me!
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Re: When God Winks - a book that helped me with HP

Postby Linda (lsv) » Thu Jul 22, 2010 6:18 pm

Hi Janet,

Sounds very intriguing! I will read it soon. I am not sure if my take fits in with the message of the book...but for me there are no coincidences. HP at work at all times. Thanks for the share!

Love,
Linda
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Re: When God Winks - a book that helped me with HP

Postby JanetsHope » Thu Jul 22, 2010 6:35 pm

I agree with you on that one, Linda. Whether certain things are thought of and referred to by some of us as a coincidence, serendipity, kismit, karma, fate, etc. ... I believe everything happens for a reason ... and it is my HP, as you say, at work all the time! I'm famous for saying "there are no coincidences!" :) I know for many of us though, it's sometimes difficult to get our head around defining our Higher Power. I almost didn't buy the book because of the subtitle; I'm glad I gave it a chance.

Find it at the library if you decide to read it ... that way, if it doesn't work for you ... you won't be out any $$ :)

Hugs to you,
Janet
God, grant me the Serenity to accept the people I cannot change,
the Courage to change the one I can,
and the Wisdom to know it's me!
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Re: When God Winks - a book that helped me with HP

Postby Linda (lsv) » Thu Jul 22, 2010 6:44 pm

One more thing Janet...have your read "The Shack" by William Young? It was a real life changer for me. I am looking forward to reading "When God Winks"...it sounds really good. Thank you!

Love,
Linda
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Re: When God Winks - a book that helped me with HP

Postby JanetsHope » Thu Jul 22, 2010 10:59 pm

I have had the book for about year, but I haven't read it. After reading what everyone has written here on the forum about it, I definitely need to make it a priority! I love to read and there just aren't enough hours in the day! Thanks, Linda for recommending it! Janet
God, grant me the Serenity to accept the people I cannot change,
the Courage to change the one I can,
and the Wisdom to know it's me!
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