today i am a mess

Coping with the loss of a loved one.
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BeeBee
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today i am a mess

Post by BeeBee » Sat Jan 31, 2015 1:15 pm

Yes... just for today i will allow myself to cry for the loss of my son. I miss him greatly and its good to cry. Eliminates the toxins and is one way for me to express how much I love him and miss him. Its normal, necessary and cleansing.

Tyflms.


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Post by Cheryldel » Sat Jan 31, 2015 8:19 pm

It's a process like everything else...so very sorry..have no real vocab to express how much. He is still around ( I believe) in different form. I hope he shows you some signs.
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Post by MarieW » Mon Feb 02, 2015 3:55 am

Thank you for sharing. We're here for you.
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Post by DianeB » Tue Feb 03, 2015 1:39 pm

BeeBee:

I can't say I understand the loss of a child. Yet,
I do understand the loss of the child who could have
been.

There are still those days when I find myself awash
in tears for the struggles and pain my son has had
in his life.

I don't see a mess - I see a loving, grieving mother.

Your pain brought me to tears. I am so glad you
have stayed and shared so honestly about yourself
and your journey.

Hugs....
Hugs....

with Love

DianeB



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Re: today i am a mess

Post by Lyndi » Sat Feb 28, 2015 3:35 pm

BeeBee:
We must express it through our tears when we can, for as long as we need to. I am glad you shared with us. Our children will always be our precious ones.
Lynne

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