Our family is in crisis

[carpediem]

I am well in favor of a good meltdown.
I personally recommend them (as long as I don't injure myself or others, I AM totally down with it).
I think you are sounding so very sane in spite of all the insanity you're faced with, which is one clear sign to me that your recovery will get you through, no matter what.

Thanks for the update. I'm thinking about you and sending good vibes your way.